Many people, in search of personal motivation, read books and attend special seminars. But the American businessman, blogger and writer Gary Vaynerchuk reduced everything to one phrase. It is worth repeating it to yourself every morning, recalling the really most important things in this life.
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This simple and effective phrase is really capable of motivating, and it consists of only three words: “You are not eternal”. You may be afraid of these words, but they are honest. Each person, in fact, has only one attempt to build his happy life. We will not get a second chance. You can complain about the fate that develops against you, about an unloved job. But it’s much more effective to try to change complaints about real actions.
In the world you can find many people who are overly concerned with the happiness of others, but forget about themselves. But to teach other people to be happy is possible only by realizing this secret personally. And even though it may seem selfish, you must start with yourself.
Everyone should honestly answer themselves, do their current activities help to become more successful? And it is necessary to consider not only the profession, but also personal life. As a result, sooner or later, a happy person will understand that the most important thing is not the amount of money earned, but the method that was used.
Harry Vaynerchuk remembered his youth – he had to talk a lot with older people who were over 90 years old. The guy asked the old people to tell about their life, many stories began with the words “It’s a pity that …”. Someone realized that it was necessary to work better, but someone did not have enough communication with loved ones. There were also those who were not engaged in what they loved, but followed the choice of parents or circumstances. And all these people regretted their mistakes.
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Experience with older people taught Vaynerchuk that there is no better time than right now to start changing your life. Young people who are already 20 years old, it is time to act. At this age, it is still not the time to become pragmatic, to earn a lot and to acquire spectacular attributes of a happy life – a fashion phone, a luxury car. We must understand for ourselves that
life gives us only 5 – 10 years of activity to build the foundation of our future.
Now is the time to embark on a reckless journey with friends, create your own musical group in an attempt to realize your creative potential. And if the same 7-8 young people live in your apartment, then why not unite in a certain society of interests? At such an age, a person still has no serious obligations, so why not now try to secure your desired future?
If you are 40-50 years old or even 60, then there is still a lot of time for building happiness. Everything is possible if it is supported by a strong desire. And if retirement serves as a guide for someone in your life, then you can concentrate on what is really important to you.
No matter how trite, but sooner or later, each of us will die. No matter how old you are, you have to take advantage of the life allotted to us and make yourself happy. Moreover, right now a huge number of opportunities have been opened for the realization of their desires.
Vainerchuk decided to express such thoughts in connection with the latest observations of people. Obviously, the more opportunities there are, the more often people miss them. It seems to people that they can take advantage of the chances later. And we live, believing that this “later” will definitely come, forgetting about the time allotted to us. Let these thoughts force at least someone to reconsider their behavior and say to themselves the very phrase “You are not eternal”. After all, we have only one life.
Start each morning with these words, they will make you get out of bed and do what is necessary. There is only one opportunity; this is our life. And regrets will only poison her, so stop regretting what has not been done and start looking for your way to happiness.